Adhesion to the myths of conjugality by men and women: associations with marital quality and conflict

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https://doi.org/10.5433/2236-6407.2019v10n3suplp66

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Conjugal myths, Gender, Conjugal quality, Conjugal conflict

Abstract

The purpose of this study was to identify the adhesion of men and women to conjugal myths, comparing the sexes and checking associations with sociodemographic variables, marital quality and style of conflict resolution strategies. Participated 65 heterosexual couples, officially married (45.3%), in a stable union (35.9%) or dating (18.5%). The instruments used were: sociodemographic questionnaire, questionnaire of conjugal myths, Golombok and Rust Inventory of Martital State e Conflict Resolution Style Inventory. The results revealed that there was high or moderate adhesion to the conjugal myths. For men, greater adherence was associated with perceived higher marital quality, greater use of submission strategy and less involvement in conflict. For women, adherence to myths was positively correlated with the strategies of positive resolution of conflicts and submission and negatively with involvement in the conflict. It is discussed the need to consider adherence to the myths of conjugality in interventions with couples.

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Author Biographies

Angélica Paula Neumann, Universidade Regional Integrada do Alto Uruguai e das Missões - URI - Campus de Erechim

PhD in Psychology from the Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul. Professor in the Psychology Course at URI - Campus de Erechim

Denise Falcke, Universidade do Vale do Rio dos Sinos (UNISINOS)

Master and PhD in Psychology from the  Pontificia Universidade Católica do Rio Grande do Sul  (PUCRS). Works in the Graduate Program in Psychology at the Universidade do Vale do Rio dos Sinos  (UNISINOS).

Clarisse Pereira Mosmann, Universidade do Vale do Rio dos Sinos (UNISINOS)

PhD in Psychology from the Pontificia Universidade Católica do Rio Grande do Sul (PUCRS). Works in the Graduate Program in Psychology at the Universidade do Vale do Rio dos Sinos  (UNISINOS).

Adriana Wagner, Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul

PhD in Psychology from the Universidad Autónoma de Madrid. He works at the Institute of Psychology at UFRGS and at PPG in Psychology.

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2020-01-11

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Neumann, A. P., Falcke, D., Mosmann, C. P., & Wagner, A. (2020). Adhesion to the myths of conjugality by men and women: associations with marital quality and conflict. Estudos Interdisciplinares Em Psicologia, 10(3supl), 66–84. https://doi.org/10.5433/2236-6407.2019v10n3suplp66

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